I think what is grating on me so badly is the fact that my ship is being wrecked (?) by someone so darn annoying and not even remotely likeable. If I could like her just a teeny little bit this wouldn't be so hard, but he seems to be throwing over Ziva (I know not really, there is no canon "relationship" between T/Z)for a total b***h.

My problem with her is not that she is with Tony, after all I loved Paula (didn't like Jeanne, but she wasn't likeable either) and I have no problems with Ray, it's EJ that I just don't like.